Dear M Girl,
I don't know how to get my crush's attention! We have been in the same school for two years and we have yet to talk. Whenever I look at him in the school hallways, he always looks away. In Math class, he even avoids sitting next to me! I want to join the cheerleading team, because I know he is a football player, but I don't want to seem too desperate. His best friend told me that I'm just not his type. I feel like I'm not good enough. What can I do to get him to notice me?
First and foremost, don't ever think you're not good enough! You might not be right for each other, but you are ALWAYS good enough! Secondly, don't be so harsh on yourself and turn your attention to positive things like schoolwork, family, your BFFs. Keep yourself busy with people who love and appreciate you! Focusing on someone who isn't returning your attention and affection is totally not worth it. If you truly love cheerleading, join, but don't join for him - join for yourself. Be a leader and embrace the person you are, not him. Have faith that things will work themselves out and that, by no time, you will have your own dream boy cheerleading for you! You deserve it, girl!
Xoxo, M Girl
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