Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking regretting rejecting your secret crush!!
M Reader dellismy asked:
This guy in my school and I really didn't get along until one day he walked up to me and told me that he likes me! I said I didn't like him back (even though I kind of do) because he's known for liking lots of girls. I thought I did the right thing, but after that, he moped around for a whole month! Did I mess up?
And M Girl's answer is:
"You didn't mess up -- how would you have known that he really likes you? Guys tend to do that sometimes -- act mean towards you when they secretly really like you! They do that because they don't know how to show their true feelings, and they're afraid to get rejected! Another important thing you'll learn in the long run is that it could take meeting one person to change someone for the better. He may have had crushes all over school, but you may be the one girl who gave him true butterflies (that may be why he's moping around school!)! You could totally go up to him or call him up and tell him you didn't mean to say no like that in his face. You just got freaked out because you weren't sure if you were just another girl on his list of crushes. Be honest with him and tell him exactly how you feel! He'll totally understand and you may end up being BFFs or long time BF and GF!"
Don't forget to check back here tomorrow for more advice. And if you've got a question you want M Girl to help with click here to submit it!