Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking crushing a guy you've known forever -- who has a GF!!
M Reader degennarobeth asked:
I really like this guy I've known since Kindergarten but he has a girlfriend now. I know that he's taken, but he told me that if he didn't have a GF, he'd date me! Now I feel awful because I really like him and get speechless every time I see him! What do I do?
And M Girl's answer is:
"Ok, this guy definitely values your friendship and doesn't want you to feel bad about the fact that he has a girlfriend. I know it totally stinks that if it wasn't for this girl, you'd be his #1, but you have to respect the fact that she is the girl in his life right now. That totally might change, or she may be sticking around for a while. The most important thing for you to do is stick by his side as a friend. Let him know that you're always around if he ever needs anything or wants to talk and hang out -- as a friend! If things build up to something more later on, then that's great! Just be patient and see what the future has in store for you guys. But for right now, be his buddy. I'm sure he loves having you in his life in any way he can!"
Don't forget to check back here tomorrow for more advice. And if you've got a question you want M Girl to help with click here to submit it!