Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking liking a guy while having feelings for you BFF!!
M Reader snowykatie asked:
I have a great guy friend who I always hang out with. I also have a crush that I haven't seen in a few months. I'm started to get closer to my BFF, so I feel like I'm betraying my crush by hanging out with him. Who do I choose? My BFF or my crush?
And M Girl's answer is:
"First thing's first: You should never have to chose one person! Your BFF is your friend while a crush is someone you have feelings for on a different level. A friend is there to stick around through thick and thin. So, if you feel like your crush wouldn't like you hanging out with him, then that's something you need to talk about with your crush. If you feel guilty about it because you're starting to have crush-like feelings for your BFF, then you should probably just think about exactly what you what. Do you want your friend to become boyfriend material? Or do you want him to stick by your side as just a friend? Also, how do you really feel about your crush? Just be open and honest to yourself and then honest with each of the guys. Once you figure out what you want, you can tell them how you feel and then you'll be totally relieved!!"
Don't forget to check back here tomorrow for more advice. And if you've got a question you want M Girl to help with click here to submit it!