Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking about dealing with problems with a best friend.
M Reader kbeller123 wrote:
"One of my best friends and I used to be so close. We would sit together at lunch and talk all the time. Then one day she just leaves and goes to talk to these girls, who I guess, "relate to her better." But sometimes when those friends aren't there she talks to me like nothing's happened. I'm so confused. What do I do? I really don't think I should talk to her but I don't know. Please help!"
And M Girl's answer is:
"It isn't right that your best friend just got up and left you one day. She should have at least told you she was going to sit with other people and not just leave. If you still want to be friends with her, you should try talking to her about the situation and ask her what's up. It doesn't seem like she is being a very good friend, so it is understandable that you don't want to talk to her anymore. You shouldn't have to talk to her whenever SHE feels like coming to talk to you - especially since she thinks it's fine to just get up and leave you for her other friends. Tell her you aren't going to put up with it anymore because she didn't treat you very nicely. You have the right to not be friends with her anymore. It isn't fair to you to get treated poorly. Stand up for yourself and tell her how you feel. Good luck!"
Don't forget to check back here tomorrow for more advice. And if you've got a question you want M Girl to help with click here to submit it!