Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking about liking the same guy as your friend.
M Reader taylorswift808 wrote:
"Me and my friend like the same guy. She told me she liked him and then I told her that I liked him too. She then started yelling at me to pick another guy! I told her that I can't help who I like and now she won't stop. I'm upset that she is putting a guy between our friendship."
And M Girl's answer is:
"It isn't right to have a guy come between your friendship. Your friend shouldn't have reacted that way. She was probably just upset because it's never fun when you and your friend are crushing on the same guy. Give her some time to calm down then try talking to her about it. I think both of you should try your best to stop liking this guy. If one of you started to date him, it would really upset the other one. So the best thing to do is to just agree to move on from the situation. There are millions of boys out there and you are going to have tons of crushes - but a friend is someone that is going to be there for you for a long time! A friendship is more important than a crush. Good luck!"
Don't forget to check back here tomorrow for more advice. And if you've got a question you want M Girl to help with click here to submit it!