Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW spin on the daily advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have our M Girl answer it!! Today, we're talking about knowing your limits.
M reader Justinbieberfan189 wrote:
"Okay so I dated this guy for about 3 or 4 weeks. At first I wasn't so sure because he was one of my really good guy friends but I kind of had a crush on him. So he was really into me first and really, really liked me. He wanted to kiss me the first week we went out, but I wasn't ready and nervous because it was my first. He kept on asking and finally I was ready but that same week he dumped me. He said he wanted to be single. I still really like him and often think about what could have went wrong or what I could have done differently. Do you think I should just forget about him or do you think I should have just kissed him and maybe we would still be going out?"
And M Girl's answer is:
"It sounds like that guy doesn't deserve you. If you're not ready to do something in a relationship, then you shouldn't do it. You don't want to end up regretting your actions or risk feeling uncomfortable. The right guy won't force you to do something you don't feel comfortable doing, and will understand. It's best if you save your first kiss for the moment you feel ready and with someone who deserves to be with you. Good luck!"
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